Sunday, October 3, 2010

A NOTE TO WAYNE AND ALYSSA

DISCLAIMER: This is not my usual blog. It is meant for two of my grandchildren who are very young and have a lot to learn about life.

Alyssa, Words cannot express how disappointed I am about the way you choose to image yourself on facebook. I am not sure if the disgusting status was aimed in my direction, or not, but it really doesn't matter. It was out there for the whole world to see--and knowing t he world I know--the world will judge. No, they wont be judging me or whoever that post was referring to, but they will be judging YOU. As I told you before, you are a beautiful young lady until you open your mouth, or set your fingers to the keyboard. That certainly changes the image. It is obvious that you have little or no respect of others, but I would hope and pray that you have some respect for yourself, and once you do tha t you might find others respecting you more. I love you very much. I know I have not played a big role in your life once your parents separated. I regret that. I never had any living grandparents in my life, but once t hey split, I thought it best not to interfere. I am sorry for that. But, you and they , have never ceased to be in my prayers and I want only what is best for you. Please think about these things. We all love you but are unhappy with your life choices.

Wayne, I have been talking with your mom and reading bits and pieces in facebook about the upcoming events in your life. I strongly commend you for wanting to stand up to your responsibilities. The only thing I ask is that you make sure they are YOUR responsibilities. While I know that it is possible to conceive a child after only one night in bed, that and the length of time between hearing from your girlfriend, tend to make me suspicious. For your sake and for the sake of the child, please make sure. That little one deserves to know who his daddy is if only for medical
history.

Know that I love you both very much and will be there for you. Are you the first grandchildren to turn my hair gray.
No, but perhaps the most public.